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Strolling down the path that leads to Tomorrowland, I see the very thing to beckon Elle to my side . . . a mobile trash can.  Although this is the first time I have ever laid eyes on the traveling waste receptacle, I immediately recognize it as PUSH.  Reports on the internet of PUSH have frequently intrigued me, and I feel a rush of excitement over finally spotting it.

“Elle,” I call out in wild enthusiasm, “Quickly come here!”  Elle’s eyes widen at my antics.    She knows that I have made a magical discovery and rushes to me.  “Look,” I direct, “Do you see that trash can?”  She nods.  “It’s a walking trash can,” I explain.  Elle giggles while she watches PUSH zig-zag across the path ahead of us.  I continue, “Its name is PUSH.  It is a real, functioning trash can.  Do you know why it is called PUSH?  You can push its door to throw trash inside,” I elaborate.  “Can I try?” my eager waste manager inquires.  I respond with a crisp, “Sure!”

Elle takes off after the rubbish-collecting bin.  I wear a proud smile on my face as I anticipate a priceless moment.  The eager anticipation is short-lived though.   My smile rapidly deteriorates into a gaping hole of dread as I see my tyke bumrush PUSH in linebacker fashion.

PUSH is taken by surprise when Elle shoves the can so hard that its grounding is put at risk .  As the can teeters back and forth, trying to regain its footing, PUSH’s “bouncer” sharply looks at Elle and glares as if she might pick her up and throw her in the trash receptacle.  Oblivious to the Cast Member’s disapproving expression, Elle turns to me with pride.  She believes she has made appropriate contact and participated in a Magic Kingdom ritual familiar to all Neurotic Disney Kids, but the horrified look on my face shatters her delusion.

I take her by the hand and slowly back away from PUSH’s angered escort.  We walk ahead of the garbage disposing pair, and I quietly explain to Elle that there was a misunderstanding.  PUSH isn’t supposed to be pushed in a literal sense.  His swinging door is meant to be held open so that one can dispense of trash . . . just like every other trash can.  Elle is eager to return to the waste container and engage it in proper fashion, but as I glance over my shoulder and meet the hostile gaze of PUSH’s accompanying escort I advise Elle against this plan of action.  We have offended the sensibilities of the litter-fighting crew, and it seems best to walk away while we are ahead.

Elle is heart-broken. She can’t take another step because her sorrow overwhelms her.  We come to a stand-still on the path between Main Street USA and Tomorrowland while she hangs her head and sobs.  I am at a loss and do not know how to repair this mournful scene.  All the while, PUSH and its refuse-protecting guide inch closer to our location.

I become slightly nervous. Will there be a confrontation? PUSH appears to be headed straight for Elle, and I am unsure of the scrapper’s intentions.  Once the can reaches us, a small robotic voice asks, “Why are you so sad?”  Thinking that I was the one who inquired about her condition, Elle never looks up and pitifully remarks, “I’m not sad, I’m very upset!”  PUSH, being a compassionate waste manager, prods, “Well why are you so upset?”  This time Elle raises her head and is slightly bewildered to find that the trashy friend she longed to engage is standing before her and actually SPEAKING.  She tries to compose herself, but she is stunned by this phenomenon.  The junk gatherer not only travels but it can obviously see and carry on a conversation!  Looking to me for help, I prompt, “Elle, PUSH wants to know why you are upset. He sees you crying. Are you going to explain why?”  Elle slightly stutters, “Well, I wanted to push your door to see the trash.”  “Go ahead!” PUSH instructs, “You can see the trash.”  I glance at PUSH’s overbearing handler.  She seems to have softened at the sight of this interaction.

With some hesitation, Elle opens the trash can’s door and views the smelly waste of countless park guests.  I can tell she is baffled because she was expecting to find a person inside the advanced trash accumulator.  “Is that better?” PUSH wonders. Elle nods in agreement. The debris-filled bin says, “Now will you smile and give me a hug?”  Elle looks to me for guidance.  She is unsure if she is allowed to embrace filthy waste containers.  Under most circumstances, I would adamantly forbid loving touches with trash cans, but I make an exception this time.  She wraps her arms around the boxy bin, and it coos.  Elle begins to giggle over the amorous murmurs and rests her head against her new buddy.

As I watch the beauty of litter love unfold before my eyes, I have an epiphany.  The best of plans may go awry, but all hope is not lost.  Magical moments can still happen with a gentle PUSH and a little pixie dust.

Contributed by: JL (NDM#1). JL is our Disney Driven Lifestyle Coach and creator of The Disney Driven Life as well as the Neurotic Disney People Community.

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BOARDWALK BLUNDERS

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CLOTHES THAT DON’T MAKE THE MAN

 The introduction to the twins has been a little rough.  Angel, my precocious niece, has developed a way to look down her nose at people who aren’t “acceptable” even if they stand three and a half feet above her.  Unfortunately, I have discovered that I am amongst the “unacceptable.”  This would not normally be so disheartening considering that we only just met, but DH—who is drastically less interested in procuring the affections of munchkin snobs—has immediately secured a place in her clique.

Meanwhile Pooter, my sturdy nephew, has yet to give me any indication of his regard.  When placed in my vicinity, he stared at me with no response.  His steady and stern gaze was a bit unnerving, for I couldn’t discern whether he was going to run from me or charge at me.  I was told that he doesn’t talk much because his sister “runs the show.”  I was told that it takes him a while “to warm up.”  I was told not to ever take the swimming goggles off of his head because “he would have a nervous breakdown.”

In the hours since those initial meetings, I have also learned that the twins love to play a game called “Terrorize The People.”  This game is fairly simple.  The two primary players are the twins.  The rest of us are the pawns.  The players control the pawns to the best of their ability through a clever tag-team technique of tantrum behavior.  One twin screams and wails for a spell while the pawns try to problem-solve the crisis.  Once the wailing twin has been pacified, the pawns are given a five-minute rest.  Then the other twin—who was previously playing in a cherubic manner—erupts into irrational fits, throwing the pawns into a tizzy once again.  The game is played non-stop, and it proves effective in driving the pawns to the brink of insanity.

Hoping to regain a mental marble or two, I know I must get out of the villa soon.  I announce, “DH, our kids and myself are going out tonight. We’ve never been to Disney’s Boardwalk Area, so we are heading out there after dinner.”  Grammy adds, “Why don’t we all go?”  “That’s not necessary,” I reply.  “I know we are here together, but you shouldn’t feel obligated to do everything we do.  The twins might be too tired to do all the running around we intend to do.”  It is my hope that Auntie—who looks quite exhausted—will take this easy-out for her family.  Grammy exclaims, “Nonsense!  The twins will love it and fall asleep in their strollers when they get tired.”

I smile and concede defeat in my mind.  There is no way to escape our boardwalk companions without blatant and aggressive exclusion.  Contrarily, Grammy has a plan to enhance the concept of our solidarity.  “I have the perfect thing for everyone to wear tonight,” she announces.  “When I was at Wal-Mart, they had Pirates of the Caribbean shirts on clearance.  I bought one for all the men.  I also found princess outfits for the girls.”  The children squeal with happiness at the news.

Feeling her effort of camaraderie has been endorsed, Grammy jaunts to the villa’s second bedroom and returns with a box.  Everyone waits for the ceremonial unveiling of our unitarian apparel.

With great fanfare Grammy pulls out the first pirate shirt.  It sports an edgy skull and crossbones dressed in Captain Jack Sparrow headgear and Pirates of the Caribbean banner, but the shirt is a shocking gold color.  I can see the reason for a reduced price, for the shirt screams “TASTELESS!”  Buddy and DS5 congratulate each other with high-fives.  They feel they have won the fashion lottery in scoring these scallywag duds.  DH and Uncle look on in complete horror.  They cannot believe they are expected to don that outrageous hue.

DH looks at me with big eyes that plead for rescue.  I shrug in his direction with a regretful expression.  I feel helpless to squash this moment of bargain hunting victory in Grammy’s life.

“I’m sorry to say,” Grammy expresses, “that I couldn’t get all the shirts to match perfectly.  They didn’t have the gold color in men’s sizes.  They only had black.”  With less fanfare but still some excitement, Grammy pulls out a much larger version of the same pirate shirt in a masculine black.  I see DH and Uncle take on relieved postures and smile gratefully as they are handed their evening attire.

“The girls have outfits,” Grammy declares.  As she pulls out each one, handing them off to Angel, DD7 and DD2, I see they are—in fact—rather adorable playsuits.  Frilly shorts in a floral pattern accompany a soft, graphic screen t-shirt of all the Disney princesses.  The girls are pleased.  Auntie and I smile at the thought of our darlings proudly being Disney branded for the evening with such appeal.  All that is left is the viewing of the women’s wear.  I don’t know whether I should be excited or frightened.

“Sadly, there were no Disney shirts for women on the sale rack,” Grammy explains.  “But I was able to find a couple in a thrift store.  They don’t match because—obviously–at thrift stores you just get what you find.  Grammy then pulls out two used and uninspiring tees.  There is no style in the shape of the shirts.  There is no “personality” in the design.  They have some clipart images of a few primary Disney characters and the generic word “Florida” printed in common fonts.  I can tell these were originally purchased in a gas station somewhere along a Florida highway.

Auntie speaks up, “Grammy, you know I have a hundred of those.  You can give them both to NDM#1.  I was going to wear my Chip-n-Dale shirt tonight anyway.”  Auntie is already dressed in her vintage-inspired chipmunk ringer tee and looks ready for a Disney night in style.  Grammy proudly responds, “How generous!”  She then turns to me and hands me my newly acquired treasures.

I hurry with them back to the safety of my villa bedroom as my mind races to find an escape from the current predicament.  The bottom line is these shirts are ugly, and—Mickey Mouse or no Mickey Mouse—they make me look ugly.  It will be my very first night experiencing the elegant seaside-themed Disney’s Boardwalk Area.  I want to stroll it in confidence and without care.  Wearing either of these shirts will condemn me to a night of insecurity and self-consciousness.  I will hardly be able to focus on my surroundings if I can’t see past my unbecoming tourist couture.

I search the core of my NDM being for the solution.  Think, think, think.  I will find the answer.  I must find the answer.

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I rock back and forth, balancing my posture on my toes first and then heels. The fidgeting feeling travels beyond my lower limbs, though, and begins to creep into my fingers.  I try to still my digits by clasping my hands behind my back, and this does seem to help quiet my overly excited body to some degree.

 It is difficult to see much through the mass of people, but I crane my neck to get a good look at the lobby.  As I piece together the fractured scenery between the heads that tower over my slight 5’2” NDM frame, I make out a beautiful mural on the wall behind the check-in counter.  It portrays colorful beachfront homes, a lighthouse and some docked boats in a coastal setting. The colors are bright, yet they induce a sense of ease and care-free living.  In the foreground, actual lampposts catch my eye.  Then I realize that in a clever move of interior design, Disney has mounted these appliances at each hotel clerk’s post.  It is one of those special touches that make Disney stand out among its competitors in the aspect of theming.

I close my eyes and focus on the Jimmy Buffett song I faintly hear beyond the murmur of chit-chat.  As I imagine being immersed within Key West, I can almost smell the ocean.

My smile has now become a permanent fixture on my face.  My cheeks burn from being held in a contracted position, but I can’t help their discomfort.  This is a moment in my life that I will always retain, and my grin is an inevitable response.

 A cheerful Cast Member, dressed as a beach attendant, begins handing out folders with resort information tucked inside.  I am handed my very own Pluto-clad portfolio, and I beam as I read the “Welcome Home” message scripted across the cover.  My guess is that due to the length of the wait, this folder was given to provide me with reading material while I bide my time in line as well as make the check-in process move a tad more quickly.

In order to enhance this special moment, I decide that I should strike up a conversation with another happy vacationer.  “Have you been here before,” I ask the woman in front of me.  My excessive amount of perkiness would even shame the High School Musical pep squad, but it seems to come naturally to me as I stand in the middle of Key West bliss.  She looks down her perfectly constructed nose at me, gives me a “once-over” glance, and haughtily says, “No.”  Her condescending tone catches me off guard.  Suddenly, I am cognizant of the fact that she is an actual Disney Vacation Club Member, and I have now betrayed the reality that I am not with my embarrassing amount of enthusiasm. 

My smile immediately transforms into a humbled expression. My eyes dart from side to side to see if anyone else has noticed the fact that this silicon-implanted female has just verbally undressed me with one word.  I feel completely naked as a non-Disney Vacation Club Member in the middle of a Disney Vacation Club Resort.  My acute self-awareness has left me feeling like a sham . . . a poser.  Sheepishly I chuckle, “Oh. This is my first time.”  She looks at me with a knowing smirk and says, “Yes.”  I gulp and feel my pride being swallowed along with my saliva.  Is there somewhere for me to hide?

In addition to feeling bare as a result of my diminished vacationer status, I now feel naked upon the realization that I’m not holding a credit card.  Since DH is the credit card keeper, his presence becomes necessary as I find myself getting closer to our check-in opportunity.  I catch DH’s gaze and motion that he should arise from the striped sofa and join me in line.

We find ourselves poised behind the line’s last boundary.  In a brief moment we will be invited to approach the check-in counter with a cordial, “May I help you?”  As we continue to wait, I look to my immediate left. Marking this threshold of vacation initiation is a sign that states: Welcome Home Disney Vacation Club Members.  Once again, it brings to my attention that I am a fraud, assuming a position in a Disney Vacation Club Member line when I have not put my signature on a DVC deed. This is not actually “my home away from home.”  Instead, I am merely enacting some queer form of breaking and entering.  I shrink away from the sign and accidentally bump into DH’s side. As I demurely apologize for my imposing existence, DH looks at me curiously.  I am not usually a NDM that presents as meek and mild, so he is slightly alarmed by my changed demeanor.  He asks, “Are you OK?”  Averting my eyes from him, I softly speak, “I’m fine.”

A beach attendant looks up from her post and waves for us to join her.  I follow behind DH, watching my feet and not daring to look at the others whom still stand in line.  DH motions that I should begin speaking with the hostess and acquire our accommodations, but I can’t bring myself to do it.  I am far too nervous about the DVC intrusion I am about to commit.  DH looks at me with a furrowed brow, shakes his head in confusion and takes over the dialogue.

I stand in agony while the sweet beach attendant goes over each item in our Disney Vacation Club folder with DH.  Due to us booking our reservation under the name and ID number of Bill.Knows.Disney, our driver’s licenses must have given away the fact that that we are not true members . . . that we are merely renting DVC points.  I’m sure this endearing Cast Member is aware of our fraudulent activities, yet she continues to treat us with the utmost respect.  The guilt builds inside me with every kind gesture she extends.  I fear I may burst.

When she finally wraps up our check-in formalities with the friendly phrase, “Welcome Home,” I can stand it no longer.  I break my silence with the confession I feel compelled to announce. “We aren’t members. We are just wanna-bees,” I blurt.

I dare to look upon her face in that moment and am met with a strange expression in which I can’t quite read a meaning.  A nervous giggle escapes my throat.  I blush in an awkwardly shy manner.  Then quicker than any woman with plastic body parts could say “botox,” I grab DH’s hand and make a quick exit with my family.

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