Ami B. (NDM#381) (35 Posts)

Princess Ami grew up going to Disney World when it was young and very small in comparison to today. It was a “World” that spanned only the Magic Kingdom resort area and the E-ticket was king! Disney World grew and Ami did with it, savoring every moment and change. Now that they are both knocking on 40, Magic Kingdom does its Disney magic with 3 more parks. It’s probably not a coincidence that Ami now experiences that new magic with 3 more princesses in tow. The girls are growing up addicted to the magic just as their mom did. Married to Prince Scott, Ami is gradually converting him over to the pixie dusted side! In addition to writing Disney infused blogs like www.disneyparkgoddess.blogspot.com and www.faithtrustandpixiedusted.blogspot.com, Ami is a singer in her Virginia church’s contemporary praise band and a self-proclaimed foodie.


Photo Credit: Meija Eller

I remember the day so well.  It was early February 1999, and Mulan had just been released to VHS.  My two-year-old daughter and I decided to snuggle on the couch that afternoon and watch this long awaited video together.  I was about five months pregnant at the time, and afternoon couch snuggles were like manna from heaven to me!

The phone rang.  The fact that I had a tumor removed a few days before never entered my mind.  It was a “pregnancy tumor” they told me, due to all the excess growth hormones.  What I was about to hear over the phone knocked me for a loop.

Malignancy.

I kindly thanked the doctor, who apologized profusely for giving me this information in such an impersonal way.  She was filling in for my own doctor, who was, ironically, in Disney World at the time.  Stunned, and not really knowing how to absorb this information, I wandered back to the couch to continue our movie.  I snuggled a little closer to my toddler and placed my hand on my belly, worry about my unborn child slowly creeping in.  I couldn’t abandon my children.

It was at this moment that a line from Mulan rested on my ears.

“The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all.”

It took many months before I sincerely valued that line.  My daughter thrived despite surgery, doctor visits every week, and a stressed out mama.    She and prayer are what kept me going and didn’t let me give up.

Today, I regularly say that cancer is the best-worst thing to ever happen to me.  I certainly don’t want to live through it again, but it gave me a new appreciation for life.  It showed me how much I am loved and prayed for.  It taught me that I am strong and that faith truly can move mountains.  I wouldn’t trade that experience for the world now.

Out of the adversity, grew a baby girl.  She was born a few weeks early, but otherwise perfect.  She couldn’t have been any more rare and beautiful even if she hadn’t had a sick mommy.  Twelve years ago this week, a flower budded, saved her mother’s life, and today she blooms with a heart not unlike Mulan’s.  A passion lies within her to save animals, the earth, and to bring honor to her family.

The adversity we face is what shapes us. Every challenge that enters our lives is one more step, one more lesson learned.  Those challenges mold us into wise, experienced people with depth and appreciation.  It isn’t easy, but if we embrace those challenges and bloom where we are planted, extracting all the gifts that are hidden in the complexities, it causes us to become who we are meant to be…rare and unique.

It makes us beautiful.

Contributed by: Ami B. (NDM#381) Ami is the DDL Ethics and Marriage Blogger. She is also the creator of Disney Park Goddess.

4 thoughts on “BLOOMING IN ADVERSITY

  1. Wow, Ami! Yours is such a beautiful story. Those must have been such hard words to hear that day. I have been around cancer a little too much with my friends and family and it scares the living daylights out of me. You are such a brave, strong woman! I can’t wait until the day I can hug you! 🙂

  2. That makes two of us, Jackie! I admire you so much and can’t wait for the day that we get to visit!
    I have to say, that God has a plan for us. Included in that plan, I believe, is the body’s ability to slowly comprehend horrific news. I never felt as if it hit me like a ton of bricks. That’s a good thing…I may have gone into shock! Instead, it was like an unraveling…I talked to my dad and a little more reality sunk in. I spoke to my husband who was flying back home and it became more real. Little by little I became more equipped to deal with it all. 12 years later, I am cancer free. xoxo!

  3. I really like your “best-worst” description of your bout with cancer. It’s true, but sad, that difficult things can help us to love life to the fullest. God bless you and your daughter!

  4. Thank you so very much, Connie! It’s true. We have to embrace all aspects of life and do the best with what we are given! Happiness will abound and richness will consume us!

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